Just shows the difference between having a partner who is committed enough to you as a couple to be willing (eventually) to find a solution – This is the basic difference in our situations
I’m CONVINCED my partner has low testosterone – in fact I think it’s been low his whole life – despite his amazing sex life when he was younger which was in part I think to his delayed ejaculation which meant he was always horny as he was rarely satisfied (though he did get two ex’s pregnant – they both had abortions).
He took a long time to mature, his voice was slow to break and remained quite high until he took elocution lessons, he didn’t start shaving til he was 26 and still has a very sparse beard growth compared to most guys of 64 – he is hairier all over now but says that’s only come in later years.
He’s never had that ‘man’ smell – you know, that smell in a guy’s bedroom in the morning? He doesn’t sweat much, his skin is lovely and smooth, and his face sometimes looks almost feminine! In fact he has been mistaken for a woman occasionally when he had longer hair as he’s pretty short.
Good God – I should be with a woman with a dildo – I’d have the same sex life lol!!!!!!
Though he thinks he wants sex as much as ever I really can’t believe he would have been happy to settle for our sex life when he was 40! And he gets quite tired now, though he’s pretty busy for his age. And an inability to realise things are different seems a symptom of low levels from what James has said in the past.
I have suggested it might be this as a friend had it recently and is on pills I think, but he always says no he hasn’t got that, he’s just getting old. He’s resisted getting more viagra for so long I know the chances of getting this checked are less than nil.
And anyway…..now I feel the end is near I think it’s up to him, I’m not going to help him sort his ED out now for the benefit of the next woman in line…. I wonder how I’ve stuck this so long. For the 2 years we’ve been together I was really only sexually satisfied for the first few months when we had viagra – ludicrous!!!! How well he’s manipulated me!
Ironic that we’re going on holiday in 2 days. I feel that if we weren’t I’d be finishing with him right now. But let’s give it this last hurrah, make or break time I suspect